I did it last night - he's giddy today!

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Registered: 03-06-2008
I did it last night - he's giddy today!
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 10:43am
Well,
I said I was thinking about it a while ago. I thought about it some more. Figured, why not? So I did it. Last night I woke him up by giving him a BJ - much to his surprise. He kept asking me this morning "what got into you last night?" and "what brought that on?"...I jokingly said that if he was going to complain, that I wouldn't do it again. He was VERY quick to say he was most certainly NOT complaining. He could hardly keep the smile off of his face this morning.
I have to say that it makes me feel very good knowing that I made him feel that good. That I put that smile on his face. Kind of wondering what I should try next........lol
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 11:42am
LOL, glad you had fun, and I'm sure he'd be happy to have you surprise him again, lol. Enjoy! ;)



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Registered: 08-29-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 2:19pm
Congrats! :) It's a great feeling.
I'm LL, and this is what makes it so easy and worthwhile for me to be there sexually for my hubby - it's so incredibly rewarding! That's also why I don't really understand some of the LLs on this boards who feel resentful and negative when it comes to sex. I feel so incredibly appreciated and loved and connected after I make an effort to pleasure him. I'll take it over doing the dishes any day, haha! :) You're making the person you love happy, you are providing them with the intimacy and emotional connection they crave, how can you not enjoy that??
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Registered: 05-04-2006
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 2:41pm

>>I'm LL, and this is what makes it so easy and worthwhile for me to be there sexually for my hubby - it's so incredibly rewarding! That's also why I don't really understand some of the LLs on this boards who feel resentful and negative when it comes to sex. I feel so incredibly appreciated and loved and connected after I make an effort to pleasure him. I'll take it over doing the dishes any day, haha! :) You're making the person you love happy, you are providing them with the intimacy and emotional connection they crave, how can you not enjoy that??<<


Remember that not all HL spouses are as forthcoming with the positive feelings, whether you give them sex, or not.

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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 2:59pm
It is a good feeling...I am not exactly an LL but I wouldn't call myself HL either. Somewhere in the middle. But, he is a HL. I have never said no to him when it comes to sex. However, I don't initiate as often as I feel he would like either.
It has been on my mind to this for a while and last night just felt like the right night.
We'd been in bed about 20 minutes. He falls asleep very quickly so I waited about 20 minutes or and then just started.
His behavior this morning was well worth it. I do like to make him happy. I was a little apprehensive to do it - I don't know why - but now that I've done it, I am trying to think of other things to do to/with him!
And I totally agree - it's MUCH better than doing dishes....lol