I ended the relationship
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|Tue, 09-15-2009 - 11:37pm|
I finally ended the relationship after months of self doubt.
He is appalled that I would 'throw everything away because of the sex thing'. He also is upset as he has tried to compromise- like tonight, where he was clearly (by action) uninterested in my initiation but went along with it (ie laying there yawning). But he still would have sex, so I should be satisfied with that compromise.
I explained wanting an enthusiastic partner. He does not see it. I explained my feelings of closeness and bonding that result from sex. He said he feels 'nothing' emotionally from sex.
I know I am doing the right thing, but I would still appreciate some words of encouragement. Also he is hinting that my needs being met are not possible, when I don't think it is unrealistic that I can find a partner that enjoys and wants to have sex with me?
Thanks. And thank you all for your advice over these past months. If only I had taken it!