I finally left him 3 days ago

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Registered: 11-14-2003
I finally left him 3 days ago
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 12:17am
Hi everyone, I left 3 days ago.....
Boy this is hard, after 7 years of being with someone, it's real hard. I just woke up on my birthday turning 34 and I just had to leave. I have been staying with my parents which is uncomfortable but I'm trying to deal with it the best I can. I don't really miss him since we really had no intimate or emotional connection left. I think we had sex once this year and it was a 3 minute terrible disaster so needless to say I do not miss him (at least not yet). I had to quit my job since he's my boss... so yes that really sucks but I'll figure something out.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Mon, 05-11-2009 - 9:43am
Good for you for being strong and doing what you knew you needed to do.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 05-12-2009 - 10:05pm

Ditto to everything "holdingontoit" said.

It's always hard to leave someone you care about, or cared about at one time. Be encouraged, and look forward to the possibilities of a brighter future with a more compatible mate.

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Registered: 02-03-2009
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 9:32am
...wow, you've made some difficult moves and I say good for you!....jobs and living arrangements can be replaced...peace of mind can't...good luck!...