I have a HL and he has NONE
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|Sun, 05-10-2009 - 8:57pm|
My fiance and I have been together for 6 years now! He is 45 and I am 43.
We have a great relationship except for sex - it is pretty much non-existant.
We did have a good sex life - good enough to satisfy me anyway and him.
He used to message girls (and I mean girls 19 and up) over 4 months ago but that has stopped and now he only looks occasionally at the girls on Craigslist (yah I know it's a bunch of young prostitutes). He said the messaging was just for friends and it has stopped all together for 4 months now.- NO MORE.
He says he still looks occasionally on Craigslist to see if he can get an erection but says it doesn't happen.
He does have a back injury that is under control and we both are large people. I am working on a new life style and body change but it will take time. He says some is fear that he will pull his back, he thinks maybe the medication he takes affects his drive . The doctor has given him Viagra to try but he won't.
He keeps making me promises, "when I lose weight....". I don't believe it!
Okay complete honesty here - I was a virgin til I met him and now I think this is God's cruel joke!!!
Now I am sex hungry and I have a partner that is not. What do men and women think of this situation. I need advise.
I love him and want to work this out - is it possible.