I'm HL is he???
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|Sat, 06-14-2008 - 1:22pm|
Hi, I just found your message board, so I hope some of you will help me out on my questions? A little into my background first though. I was married for 24 years, hated sex ( I guess that made me LL), I was not happy in my marriage. Two years ago, I met this man, who I am now engaged to and living with. I love sex now, and can't seem to have enough of it with him. (So, I guess that makes me HL now). Here is my question, I'm not sure if he is HL or LL. We have sex only about once a week, but I know for certain that he masturbates FREQUENTLY. It isn't like I don't make moves, or forwardly tell him I am in the mood. He usually comes up with an excuse, doesn't feel well, falls asleep or something. Good example is Thursday, he had not worked, so I knew he wasn't tired, we were out having dinner and I started letting him know how much I wanted him. We came home, cuddled and kissed (which never arouses him, it takes physical stimulation), but sex never happened. He didn't seem interested. Friday morning I left for work, came home and found evidence of his masturbation session again. It isn't porno, he just sometimes forgets to pick up his soiled evidence. He seems to thoroughly enjoy masturbation, and I wouldn't mind if he were doing it in addition to having sex with me, but he is doing it INSTEAD of having sex with me. When we do have sex, 99% of the time, he can't cum without fantasizing about me being with someone and catching me at it. Maybe I am over-analyzing this too much, but he talks sex, masturbates alot and I am just confused. Is he HL or LL and do any of you think this is weird behavior if he really loves me?
I would appreciate any of your replies, I am seriously questioning marriage with him, because I can't imagine it would get any better, only worse.