Initiating Sex

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Initiating Sex
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Mon, 06-20-2011 - 2:03pm

Mol's thread in Sharing Support got me thinking about the the responsibilities we have to partners when we initiate sex.

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 8:49am
mol42 wrote:

Quickies are MUCH easier (on the jaws and arms) than BJs or HJs.

Well, I've read comments to this effect, yet, subject to "normal" ranges of times to completion, the way I see this is that it's a good exercise!

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 9:08am

Indeed, I'll take your word for it on the oral side!

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 9:18am

Sorry Hold, didn't want to dredge your situation up.

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Registered: 10-31-2005
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 4:07pm

"Not comfrotable with anyone calling it "the way of the Hold"."

Aw c'mon Hold...accept your guru-ship we bestow upon you...

Question for you (and me, or any of the HL's for that matter) - if your spouse today were to suddenly convert to an HL, with all the rights and priveledges thereof, would it matter? Could the pain of rejection be washed away in an instant?

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 4:47pm

Question for you (and me, or any of the HL's for that matter) - if your spouse today were to suddenly convert to an HL, with all the rights and priveledges thereof, would it matter? Could the pain of rejection be washed away in an instant?

Personally, I'd be quite a bit suspicious wondering why the sudden change.

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 5:12pm

<< Indeed, I'll take your word for it on the oral side!

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Wed, 06-22-2011 - 5:12pm

<< Indeed, I'll take your word for it on the oral side!

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Registered: 10-31-2009
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 8:13am
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Registered: 02-03-2009
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 8:17am

...I wonder if...the HL ever considers that the constant asking for sex from a person who just doesn't want to have it...a person that might have aversions added in...or sexual trauma experiences...or personality disorders making contact hard might also feel that their needs are going unmet or their feelings are being disregarded...???...(replied to tranquilty with this, but it's a general reply...and, really, I wonder if the HLs have given this thought (I thing Hold has)....you all know that I usually fall on the side that it is up to the LL to stretch out of a comfort zone in the absence of mental illness, personality disorders, or sexual trauma experiences...so, I'm not bashing...just thinking about the words "feelings and needs being disregarded"...we all have unique needs and feelings...what is "horny" more important...???...)...

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Thu, 06-23-2011 - 8:37am

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