Is it age or not??

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2008
Is it age or not??
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Sun, 05-29-2011 - 12:52pm

My husband and I have been together for 8yrs...I'm 31 and he is 39.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2008
Tue, 05-31-2011 - 3:15pm

There is no other way that he'll do...it's sex or nothing...I would be happy with other things but he refuses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
Tue, 05-31-2011 - 11:41am

...if he's a truth teller, then believe him and then talk to him about ways that will sexually satisfy you that do not include intercourse...if that will satisfy you...

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2003
Tue, 05-31-2011 - 11:08am

Well... believe him!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2008
Tue, 05-31-2011 - 10:38am
My Dh will tell me he's tired. He does work 5-10 hour days as a deputy. He's told me that he's never been one to have sex daily, even at 18..
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2010
Mon, 05-30-2011 - 9:55am

It might not be age, but one cannot rule out hormone issues such as low T even at 39.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Mon, 05-30-2011 - 8:56am
It's definitely not age, that much is clear.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
Sun, 05-29-2011 - 9:10pm

...what does he say when you tell him you'd like to have sex more often?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 05-29-2011 - 7:36pm

At 39, it's not age.