LL a sign of closet homosexuality?
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|Sat, 01-03-2009 - 6:11am|
Hello everyone. I've posted here before about my LL husband and the frustration and stress on our marriage due to ML. Before I was just completely confused and hurt and there didn't seem to be any way to explain what has happened to us in less than 2 years of marriage. We used to have sex at least twice a week. Then it dwindled to once and now that's pretty much the best I can hope for. We recently went three weeks without sex, the longest we had gone since we got together in 2005.
Now, recently, I've seen some things that have made me think twice about his LL. I am seeing this in a whole new way and while the conclusion I am drawing is pretty difficult to deal with, at least it might explain some of this. I believe my husband may be harboring some homosexual tendencies that are, perhaps, keeping him distant from me sexually.
I will start by saying that I do not believe my husband is gay--at least not fully. When we do have sex it is great and he seems fully interested. But I always initiate and if I don't, we don't have sex. He did have a gay relationship at a young age, and I do know about this and have. We have discussed this piece of his past and he assures me that that was a long time ago and if he wanted to be with a man, he would be. But he is with me, and I honestly do believe that