makes us fight...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2008
makes us fight...
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Sun, 03-29-2009 - 11:49am
hi...
I am a thirty five year old and have partner, been tog on and off for three yrs.
For most of that time there has been an issue. re. sex drives and it gets me so mad, so upset and feel so unwanted...I really need it. I have cut down the amount i ask for to try and stop the rows...But its just so frustrating...Sometimes he cant get hard,cos his sex drive is not as high as mine...and he wont say anythin...just sit there looking embarrassed and sulking.The thing is this is the only thing we fight about.Its got so bad i feel my self shuttin off feelings...
We had a huge row last night and he ended up leavin, me shouting, him really mad and he said he is gonna throw his cell fone in the gutter...
There are a few other probs we have had in past...I had to move out of our family home when his son started picking on me...But im over all that and its water under the bridge, but it hurts me when i have over looked everythin, and then every time we have these sex probs things go to pot...
Feel so lost today and numb...he hasnt even tried to get hold of me and it hurts...Normally we wont see each other for days til the fuss dies down and then start it all up again,and we will be ok until the sex prob re emerges...
This time i think its really it. I am so unhappy
i mean i know this is partly cos im highly driven but i really have tried to compramise...
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: carakay
Fri, 04-10-2009 - 12:55pm
Has he contacted you yet or have you tried contacting him since this incident? Has he ever seen a doctor to rule out medical problems as a cause for his problems getting an erection?

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