MY BOYFRIEND DOESNT WANT SEX
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|Wed, 09-10-2008 - 10:42am|
Me and my boyfriend have a pretty good relationship. We've been together 2 1/2 years, 2 1/3 of those years it was long distance due to my being in college. Ever since I graduated a month ago he hasnt wanted sex! We've had sex 2 times in a month. He is 21 and I am 22 so im really taken back by it. When we first started dated whenever i would come home on weekends (about once a month) or have summer or winter break we would at least be having sex 4-5 times a week.
We love spending time with each other and basically live together. I hardly have any sexual experience before him, and I know he has a ton so I'm not really a "jump on top of you and %%#@ you kinda person," but i DO want sex, at least sometimes.
i dunno if maybe he is just waiting for me to make the move, or see how long ill wait until i make the move.
we jokingly talk about how we havent been having sex, and ive told him how i want to have sex and he either jokingly says something like "im too lazy for that, it doesnt matter that we have sex now that you are home for good" or "thats what redtube is for (laugh)"
so he thinks its all a joke because he has it stuck in his head that girls dont want sex so when i say that i want it, im kidding or something.
please help try and figure out whats going on!?!!?