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|Wed, 06-03-2009 - 9:25pm|
Hello! I'm new here and just wanted to introduce myself! I'm unfortunately mismatched with my hubby of almost 2 years, and although at times it feels like we're working it out, it can also feel lonely. I often times feel really ashamed of my libido for being so high. It's not like he's super low libido. We make love once or twice a week, sometimes more, but I could make love with him every day of the week (or more)!
Not sure how many other women there are here, because this question might be different for men, but how does being the HL partner make you feel? It makes me feel like I have something wrong with me, like hubby doesn't care for me as much as I care for him, and it can feel like he's got a lot of control over me. In the two years we've been married, I've never once refused him sex when he initiated (which isn't often) even though sometimes I wasn't in the mood. I guess I felt like if I didn't have sex with him, it would be a long time before we got to make love again so I'd better take what I get.
But overall, I do have to say that my marriage is happy. This is our only real problem, and I guess it's really only a problem when I obsess over it. I do wish we would have more and longer sex, but it's a work in progress.