Normal L, vs. LL, not HL vs. LL
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|Tue, 06-17-2008 - 9:56pm|
I've been lurking for a while now. From everything I've been reading, most HL on here, you are not. You are NORMAL. Your are not really HL, but if your living with a LL, it makes you feel that way
For anyone who is in. a committed relationship, and expects or wants sex maybe a couple times a week, that is NORMAL Or even to want/expect to have sex on the weekends only, (we all live busy lives, working, taking care of kids etc.). But most normal people would expect to have sex at least once a week, and probably at least 2-3 times a week if lucky. Maybe the people who want it everyday 2x a day, well that could be HL.
But most people on this board from what I've read, all they want, is a loving relationship with their partner, and to have sex a few times a week.
What's wrong with that?? It doesn't mean you are sex maniacs. It means you love the person, and want to show it in a physical way.
If you are only having sex 1x a month, or 1x every six months (like I am) that is obviously not the norm. And it is frustrating and you can talk yourself blue in the face, it still does not change things. You are only asking for the MINIMUM, they are offering NOTHING.
I still don't have the relationship I want. And I still have another partner, who I am now seeing almost every week, and provides that for me.
Any thoughts on this? Just don't want these people who are posting at HL, to think there is something wrong with them, there is not. It is normal to want physical attention/sex and to have it at least once a week or hopefully more.