Personality Characteristics

Anecdotally, a number of HLs I've read about tend to try and soothe their shyness and anxieties with sex. I don't think shyness and anxiety necessarily correlate with low sex drive.

...I don't know...my husband, my first husband and me?...we are/were HL and are outgoing, generally happy go lucky...have a tendency (had a tendency) to be adventurous...value physical fitness...we do (don't) seem to be high strung or "reactors"...

...no, not a typo...in relation to my husband, I am the LL in our relationship...I think that LL is relative to the relationship...I'm probably stroking my own ego...but, as a person who enjoys sex 3-4 solid times a week and has been enjoying it a few more additional times a week for the last few months...I think that my libido is probably a tad higher than the norm...I'm probably wrong about that...like I said...I'm stroking my own ego...but...in relation to my husband who would be thrilled to have sex in the afternoon and morning...and, probably at bed time too...I'm definitely the LL in this house...in my early to mid-20s (during my first marriage) I was also the LL in that relationship...but, I was straight up, classic LL...I didn't want to spend what free time I had (even once a week) having sex...

...I think that compromise is "easy" for anyone interested in having a healthy relationship...regardless of what the compromise is...but, I am not sure that it is any easier for my HL husband to compromise down about 7-8 times a week than for the HL husband (HL in relation to his relationship) who would like to have sex 2 times a week and gets it 2xs a month...