Quality verses Quantity?

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Registered: 06-27-2007
Quality verses Quantity?
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Fri, 11-18-2011 - 1:23pm

One sometimes aussumes too much.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
Fri, 11-18-2011 - 1:39pm
My HL DH is very much in the same boat as you. He wants lots of stimulation, multiple positions, and major demonstrations of ardor and passion. And he wants them every day, most often at 3 am. I have very little ardor or passion, and don't mind engaging, but don't really relish the idea of the decathalon of sex when I have to get up at 6 am. Added to this, he is snoring blissfully moments after disentanglement (or even before disentanglement, I will NEVER understand that) while I have to get up and clean up a little, then I am wide awake for a good hour or more, until I've wound down enough for sleep.

It is very difficult and he get less than he wants in both quality and quantity, so I know it's rough for him.
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Registered: 05-12-2004
Fri, 11-18-2011 - 7:17pm

Sorry, but I don't have an answer for you. Have never had better than so-so quality and have never had anywhere close to an interesting quantity. Having experienced neither I can't tell you which would be more important/satisfying.

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Registered: 04-28-2009
Fri, 11-18-2011 - 8:27pm

I've got all I can take of quality. I'd take a whole lot less of quality in favour of quantity. I'm in for a quicky every now and again, in the shower, in a closet while the roast is browning. There's something to be said for the fun that comes when things aren't perfect.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 7:51am

This is one of my least favorite phrases.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 9:18am
mol42 wrote:

This is one of my least favorite phrases.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 12:18pm

I'd love to know what you did - though obviously don't expect an answer!

I'm imagining chandeliers & leather..... naughty me.

Whatever, way beyond her comfort zone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 1:55pm
mol42 wrote:

I'd love to know what you did - though obviously don't expect an answer!

I'm imagining chandeliers & leather..... naughty me.

Whatever, way beyond her comfort zone.

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Registered: 10-31-2009
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 8:03pm

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Registered: 10-31-2009
Sat, 11-19-2011 - 8:06pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-12-2004
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 9:37pm

"Damn, that's sad.

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