One sometimes aussumes too much.
It doesn't really matter if I've had one a day for six weeks or none for six weeks, my O's are reliably "nice".
Sometimes I get so tired of being "sexually abnormal".
Doesn't sound abnormal to me, at least, DW has said the exact same thing.
I don't know if it's any kind of
Good for DH for hearing me about this!
Oh, that is
"So if I feel like the chances of having a good outcome are low and the barriers to engaging in sex are high"
"So, are (some) LLs deluded about the reasons behind their aversion to sex or are they dishonest? How can we tell the difference?"