"less rigid in his requirements, and more considerate of my need for sleep as well"
Great, and a combination of that, your healing up, time, and some sessions in the hot tub (with or without MST's board gathering there!) - may enable you to get the relaxation and ease to recover your drive & responsiveness.
for w and some other LL's, sex is primarily physical in the first place, leading to the increase in quality of the overall experience when its bodily urgency is highest
Yes, I think it's highly likely that sex is purely physical to w and that it makes her feel slutty, sinful and guilty, which contributes to her wanting it infrequently.
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"less rigid in his requirements, and more considerate of my need for sleep as well"
Great, and a combination of that, your healing up, time, and some sessions in the hot tub (with or without MST's board gathering there!) - may enable you to get the relaxation and ease to recover your drive & responsiveness.
for w and some other LL's, sex is primarily physical in the first place, leading to the increase in quality of the overall experience when its bodily urgency is highest
Yes, I think this is likely a big factor.
"Xi, only 101? "
The thing DW has expressed clearly is the ability to cleanly decouple the physical from the emotional.
Your choice of word (nattering) says something about how you view this bonding activity!
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I recall a conversation between us
That's definitely true for me. It takes a lot of mental energy to do this. As such, it drains me very quickly.
Yes, I think it's highly likely that sex is purely physical to w and that it makes her feel slutty, sinful and guilty, which contributes to her wanting it infrequently.
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