Quality verses Quantity?

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Registered: 06-27-2007
Quality verses Quantity?
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Fri, 11-18-2011 - 1:23pm

One sometimes aussumes too much.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 8:25am

"less rigid in his requirements, and more considerate of my need for sleep as well"

Great, and a combination of that, your healing up, time, and some sessions in the hot tub (with or without MST's board gathering there!) - may enable you to get the relaxation and ease to recover your drive & responsiveness.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 8:30am

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 8:38am

for w and some other LL's, sex is primarily physical in the first place, leading to the increase in quality of the overall experience when its bodily urgency is highest

Yes, I think this is likely a big factor.

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Registered: 05-12-2004
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 9:53am

"Xi, only 101? "

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Wed, 11-23-2011 - 10:56am
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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 12:10pm

The thing DW has expressed clearly is the ability to cleanly decouple the physical from the emotional.

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 1:58pm
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Your choice of word (nattering) says something about how you view this bonding activity!

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Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 5:53pm

I recall a conversation between us

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 9:08pm
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That's definitely true for me. It takes a lot of mental energy to do this. As such, it drains me very quickly.
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Registered: 12-06-2007
Thu, 11-24-2011 - 10:34am

Yes, I think it's highly likely that sex is purely physical to w and that it makes her feel slutty, sinful and guilty, which contributes to her wanting it infrequently.

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