Question for HL lovers...

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Registered: 06-27-2008
Question for HL lovers...
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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 6:08pm

I'm not exactly sure how to ask this question, so I'll just jump right in.


My husband is definitely HL compared to me.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 6:37pm
Speaking as an HL male, I can say that getting you hot really IS what gets him excited. At least that's true for me, with my partner. I wouldn't go looking for ulterior motives here unnecessarily. Being able to please our partner is a big part of the enjoyment HL's get out of sex.


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Registered: 01-04-2006
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 7:59pm

"He got that deer-in-headlights look and replied (as he always does), "Knowing I made you feel that good makes me feel good."

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Registered: 06-27-2008
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 9:16pm

Thanks, both of you, for setting my mind at ease.

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 6:46am

Maybe some people are just givers. I am. I dont like receiving oral at all. But I love giving it. Do you think that is how he is? Is he a giver in other areas as well? I get a lot of satisfaction in doing for others in many ways. More satisfaction than in receiving.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 06-27-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 11:17am

Oh, yeah!

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 11:28am

Good post Jen, thanks for bringing this up.

 

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Registered: 07-26-2006
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 6:13pm

>>>Or, maybe it just really IS what gets him excited, and I'm reading too much into it.<<<

Yep! Honestly, it's such a turn on for men to see us women so into it!

 

 

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Registered: 06-19-2001
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 9:18pm
Speaking from an HL perspective,
Osusguy
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 10:02pm

Hi Jen. I don't think you are doing anything wrong and shouldn't feel bad. I think you are really giving him what he wants, and that is, he wants to TURN YOU on. And it sounds like he is succeeding!! My partner totally gets off on getting me off. He wants to make me have 5-6 orgasms at least during a two hour time period. And I give him pleasure too of course, but he makes me stop if he's going to come, because he still wants to do more for me. He's the most unselfish, and giving lover I've ever had. He can last 2 hours before he lets himself go (and he's 59). Pretty impressive.

Anyways, he is totally into the details. We talk about it later, and he says "I loved when you moaned when I did this, or how you looked at me when you were coming".

Those are the things that turn him on the most, and his own satisfaction almost seems secondary.

xxxx
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Registered: 04-09-2008
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 1:46pm

Not rambling... maybe a little but I know where you are coming from.

Nicole

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