>>Obviously, as is my H, yours is extremely LL, possibly NL (no libido).
MSL, have you read some of Xi's accounts over the last few months on the board?
He has been able to achieve some place of Zen mastery in a situation where he is not getting anywhere near the sex life he'd prefer, yet has the detachment and focus that makes it work for him.
I fear that why your H behaves as he does will never be known, even to himself, and pursuing this, while understandable, may not be productive.
In the process of resetting my marriage, out of my choice, I went through a stage of 18 months of complete celibacy.
I don't think I was advocating celibacy, that would be a very personal choice at the right time.
What I was trying to say is that I feel that trying to forget or bury
Hey, msl, nice to see you (or at least the blank space where you post used to be).Hope you are well. Even if the ML persists. How is your daughter?
When you see it coming, duck!
So what's with the sudden abundance on this board of HL women involved with LL men? Is this an epidemic?
I have some questions for you women: