Let me do some cross-dressing so I can comment on your last para...
LL women will have more sex than they want in order to nurture their relationship with their HL partner.
I wish you could have told my W that back in the bad-old-days.
Hah, I never knew there were so many of us out there as well.
"this person that makes us feel...."
Being picky again, but perhaps you could do some work on that statement::
<< Once, when the kids were gone for the night, my H was lying on the couch watchingTV, and I put on some sexy lingerie and gave him a French kiss good night and then went to bed, alone.