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|Mon, 08-18-2008 - 10:40pm|
I need advice because right now I confused. I am a 29 year old female, my husband is 33, we have been married for 2 1/2 years. Before we were married our sex life was great 3 times a night, and most of all satisfying. Now I am lucky if we have sex once a week, and most of the time I'm not enjoying it, I only wishing it would be over! My husband is even having a hard time keeping an erection, which is hurtful to me because this never was a problem before. He falls asleep while performing oral sex on me and seems to no longer have a clue as to what it satisfying to me. I offered to read erotica to him and even asked about toys but he feels as though they are not needed, I disagree. I feel as though this small want of mine has become a large need for me, and is becoming frustrating everyday. I love my husband, but I'm so lost right now because I feel as though there is no intimacy in our marriage. Please help is there something I can do...Or should I make the trip down to the local sex toy store and begin satisfying myself?