So my BF and I broke up a few weeks ago.
Not bad but certainly not much better.
Good to see you back on the board. I don't think there's anything wrong with continuing the sexual relationship as long as your motives are clear. I can't say I agree with your characterization of "LL syndrome," though. It seems to me that the traits you list are no more likely to occur in LLs than in anyone else.
flm, I think she was referring to the excuses the HL always hears from the LL to avoid sex.
I don't think you should feel "bad" as in guilty that you are somehow mistreating your ex.
When you see it coming, duck!
Oops, I did it again.
I definitely see how this isn't a good thing for either of us long term, but he kisses me and I melt (always did).