Should I feel bad?

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Should I feel bad?
Wed, 03-18-2009 - 11:02pm

So my BF and I broke up a few weeks ago.

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Thu, 03-19-2009 - 10:31am
I won't judge you :)


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Registered: 09-16-2004
Thu, 03-19-2009 - 10:33am


Not bad but certainly not much better.

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Registered: 02-21-2003
Thu, 03-19-2009 - 11:57am

Hi Kimbernee,

Good to see you back on the board. I don't think there's anything wrong with continuing the sexual relationship as long as your motives are clear. I can't say I agree with your characterization of "LL syndrome," though. It seems to me that the traits you list are no more likely to occur in LLs than in anyone else.

JMO Freelance

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Thu, 03-19-2009 - 2:14pm

flm, I think she was referring to the excuses the HL always hears from the LL to avoid sex.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 03-19-2009 - 2:55pm

I don't think you should feel "bad" as in guilty that you are somehow mistreating your ex.

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sun, 03-22-2009 - 8:04pm

Oops, I did it again.

I definitely see how this isn't a good thing for either of us long term, but he kisses me and I melt (always did).