wife wants more

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Registered: 07-02-2008
wife wants more
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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 7:39pm
Ok here is my situation. I married a nice man 20 years ago. I have always been the one to initiate sex. I will say that he was naturally very eager when we were dating but I waited until our relationship was serious. Since then I always enjoyed knowing that I could please him but he never does the things I have asked him to do to please me. We have been together 23 years and I am very interested in sex often but my husband once satisfied seems to be able to go so long before he wants it again. I feel like he would be content to be roommates but I am still very much sexually alive. I am tired of being the one to initiate things. Did I spoil him so much that he has taken me for granted or is it natural for a man libido to diminish in his early 50's. He says he still finds me attractive he just doesn't need it as much. What the heck am I supposed to do. I feel like my drive is more powerful than ever.
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Registered: 01-04-2006
In reply to: qtbluiz
Wed, 07-02-2008 - 9:19pm

"Since then I always enjoyed knowing that I could please him but he never does the things I have asked him to do to please me."


"Did I spoil him so much that he has taken me for granted or is it natural for a man libido to diminish in his early 50's."


If I'm reading this right, he's been this way since you started having sex with him so long ago.

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Registered: 04-02-2003
In reply to: qtbluiz
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 8:40pm

In the best scenario, it would be as simple as amomalmost40's solution:

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Registered: 04-24-2008
In reply to: qtbluiz
Sat, 07-05-2008 - 1:37am

Unfortunately,

Wishing you good luck today, and great pleasure in the future.