Would you divorce your spouse over ML...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2008
Would you divorce your spouse over ML...
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Sun, 12-14-2008 - 8:46pm

Would you divorce your spouse over ML alone?



  • Yes
  • No


You will be able to change your vote.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2008
Sun, 12-14-2008 - 8:48pm

No need to discuss this one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2000
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 3:16pm

The problem, in my case, is that ML came on slowly.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 4:54pm
I don't think that anyone on here would divorce for ML alone...but, then again, I am a doubting Tomasina when some post that "sex is the only problem in our marriage"...I think that is sex is important to one partner and the other treats it as though it's a take it or leave it issue...resentment will build and boil over to every aspect of a marriage...but, that's just my opinion...I voted "no" by the way...I would not divorce my husband over a ML alone...I would consider it if he chose to satisfy his cravings with other people, or if he treated my needs as though they were unimportant...or, if he belittled my needs...or, if he did not treat me with respect...or, if he turned his attention away from me to something/someone else...
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 8:24pm
I voted "no" because I'm in an ML marriage and won't divorce my wife because I don't want to be a part-time daddy. Having said that, I would certainly advise my children to seek annulment or divorce in the case of severe ML if there were no children in the picture.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 3:59am
I didn't vote, because I have blocked the OP so I can't see the poll message.

When you see it coming, duck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 6:28am
Hold, are you going to leave just because of ML?...or, because of the spill over of ML?...
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 7:32am

Not sure I can separate the 2.

When you see it coming, duck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 12:32pm

<< I didn't vote, because I have blocked the OP so I can't see the poll message.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 12:40pm

<< It is like

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 2:29pm

>>>>> As an outside observer, I would theorize that your wife would have "spent and borrowed" because she was just as wired to do that (for whatever reason) as she was to become LL after marriage. <<<<<


I can see why you might think this, but it does not fit the facts.


She ran the family finances from 1992 to 1997.

When you see it coming, duck!

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