Desperate to fix my low sex drive! help!
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|Sun, 09-20-2009 - 3:07pm|
I'v been married 5 years. During the first few yrs of our marriage my husband and I suffered 4 miscarriages. I am now in my early 40's. I haven't been pregnant since December 2006. I was on Prozac for a year after that, and went off it because I wanted my sex drive back, but still...nothing. It's been 2 years and the problem is getting worse, not better. I literally have 0 desire for my husband or for sex. I don't masturbate at all and I never think of sex.
In the past, with my husband and previous partners I was the high libido partner and enjoyed sex immensely. I used to watch "those" kind of movies (now they make me sick) I used to read "those" kind of magazines (now I find them boring) and I used to masturbate a few times a week and initiate sex on top of that a few times a week. I also used to think about sex at least a few times a day and get very excited.
I have an appointment with a gynecologist and I'm hoping they will take me seriously. I'v seen my regular doctor who doesn't do anything for me (ever) and a homeopath who is trying to help, but nothings happenned yet. I'm also seeing a marriage counsellor with my husband because our marriage has definately suffered over this and other issues. We dont' have a strong marriage now but I know that if I could get my sex drive back, and I would have more motivation to fix our problems.
I'm willing to hear anyones advice of how I can make a start to get my sex drive back.