"Your wife took Ambien, and you had sex with her?
I know men hear this time and time again, but:
lol, yes, by all means, vent away. Just expect to be called on the carpet about it. Its a very effective and useful way to "get your perspective on," before interacting with your spouse.
>>>In Bettina Arndt's book, there's a whole chapter on Laundry doesn't get you Laid.<<<
I think "housework help" to some women is sort of like ML to some men. Not much of a big deal unless they aren't getting any, and if they aren't getting any it becomes a HUGE deal.
I'm totally with you on the gender distinctive roles with one exception... a woman who knows how to use a power tool correctly.
I compare it to my desire for the occasional beastly, WOT, taking charge