DH visual turn off = Low Libido DW?

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DH visual turn off = Low Libido DW?
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Thu, 09-30-2010 - 10:07am

Hi everyone.

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:26pm

We don't kill spiders, I take them outside where they belong. And if the toilet clogs and he's gone I deal with it. I can change my own oil and do like doing yard work. I don't believe in "gender specific" roles, per se. DH likes to cook and he's good at it, should I just shoo him from the kitchen and tell him "no matter that you can whip up an amazing meal....that's woman's work!"

And I certainly wouldn't want him telling me "Don't you dare catch that spider, that's my job! And why aren't you standing on the table screaming?"

We do what we are good at, and it works for us. He does yard work because he wants to and I pitch in because I enjoy it.

For the most part the standing rule in the house is "whoever is here when it needs to be done does it".

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:30pm

It must be Friday LOL



Since when is handling a spider a masculine feat? Come on, an armed intruder or an obstinate mother-in-law -

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:32pm

a spider is not an insect, it's an arachnid.

I kill all the bugs and dispose of any dead rodents in the garage as well, because in addition to being a dickhead, my DH is also a pu~~y

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Registered: 02-03-2009
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:33pm
...no, you shouldn't shoo him from the kitchen...of course not...I'm just writing what I find the norm...
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Registered: 05-31-2010
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:58pm

It's not, and that is the point. Yard work is not an inherently masculine feat either, imho. Maybe my problem is that my Father didn't have any sons, and so I learned to hunt, fish, work on cars, ect. Of course, I also learned to sew, crochet, cook, and quilt from my Mom.

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Registered: 09-06-2010
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 4:00pm

Here, we usually split it up by the traditional gender roles just because it's what we're used to and like. The difference is power and choice, which is shared equally. ;o)






Edited 10/2/2010 5:23 pm ET by darling.carly
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 4:31pm

I had a gf like that in middle school. She rode dirt bikes, hunted, even

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