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|Mon, 08-06-2007 - 11:43pm|
So I have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years. In the beginning we were having sex all the time, and he was very in to me. I had a child, we both gained a little weight, well him a lot of weight, and I have been working to lose mine. We really stopped having sex when I got pregnant, and then even after the baby (who is now almost 2)it seems like it has been every 3 months or so. He is always at home around the same time, no strange phone calls, he doesn't even have a cell phone. He seems to be really committed to our family, but I have a HL and I can't stand having to wait for months. Even when I try to initiate, he will say "I am watching tv" or some excuse. Because I am pretty positive that he isn't cheating, I don't understand. I am very hurt, and I feel like I am just a disgusting pig to him, but what is funny, he has gained 60lbs and I still find him attractive. Please give your advice, as it is ruining our relationship, and he doesn't like to talk about the S word.