Female sex drive high-He has ED

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2003
Female sex drive high-He has ED
Sun, 03-09-2008 - 12:47am

I am a middle aged woman who's boyfriend has ED. He can't take any medication due to heart issues. He feels so bad about not being able to perform however, he's not into making me feel good alot of the time. I hug him and he try to snuggle and it doesn't work! I am so frustrated. We talk about it and I understand why he's frustrated.

Everything is great between us except this issue.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-04-2006
Sun, 03-09-2008 - 11:30am

"Is there a female sex drive reducer pill? "

No there isn't.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 03-09-2008 - 4:33pm

Don't think there's anything wrong with you.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2007
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 3:18pm
Yes, my wife
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Registered: 12-28-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 7:59pm

What do you mean- "he is not into making me feel good".?

I would think if he really felt awful about his problem, he would at least WANT to try and make you feel good.

Wondering if he has always had this problem and how long you have been with him.