Frustrated with HL DH
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|Fri, 11-02-2007 - 8:18am|
Arghhh.... First let me say, I do not consider myself a LL person, I consider myself an Average Libido person. I enjoy sex, I love my husband; I am also a hard-working mother of 2; I get up at 5 am 4x a week to work out, I work hard all day, and I am exhausted to the point of not being able to keep my eyes open by the time I get the kids in bed. Still, we manage to have sex 2-3 times a week.
We had sex on Saturday morning and again on Tuesday night. This morning, Friday morning, completely out of the blue before leaving for work, hubby FREAKS out on me, says he thinks we need to see a sex therapist because he can't go on living like this, with this "lack of sex." I was shocked and hurt. I don't know where this came from. I want to tell him, "If you want to really experience 'lack of sex', just keep laying this guilt trip on me." I mean, I know his L is higher than mine, he could probably do it every day, but I think 2-3 times a week after 16 years of marriage is more than respectable!?? Maybe not??