Handling GF w/ HL?
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|Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:37pm|
I know this is a role-reverse, but here's the situation.
My GF of almost 2 years (we've been living together for 6 months), has a high libido. My libido is not as high (or, at least as high as she expects). We have sex, on average, 3-4 times/week, which I am fine with. I am happy with the sex, and pleasing her is usually not very difficult (she usually orgasms during intercourse...most often before I do).
However, she is typically 'disappointed' if there are nights where I am tired and decide to just go to bed, and she even asks, "So, why did you turn me down last night?" I also work from home, and if she is home during 'business hours', she will occasionally try to initiate something. She gets annoyed when I say, "Do I come to your work and try to take your clothes off?" (this only after she persists with her advances). She will also interrupt if I am in the middle of something (checking email or whatnot) and gets mad if I don't always accept her advances. Don't get me wrong...I like the spontaneity sometimes and don't always reject her advances, but it tends to get annoying when she does this multiple times/week. She won't even let her period interrupt her advances, and usually says, "So what?" when I bring it up.
In short, I do love her, but this issue needs to be addressed, but I don't know how. We have talked about sex before, and she has said she is 'happy' with our sex life, but I can't help but think that's a lie.
Any ideas/suggestions/tips about handling this situation?