have you forgotten

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Registered: 07-09-1998
have you forgotten
Thu, 02-08-2007 - 11:06am
I was reading a wife blog site and a woman described exactly what my first marriage was like. In that marriage I would be considered LL, my ex even said I was frigid. It was a combination of raising little ones, one more demand on me, and feeling it was all about him. There wasn't anything in it for me. I didn't feel loved, just used.
It wasn't until I had an affair and was reminded how much fun sex was. Now I definetely don't recommend this. It just seems this maybe how you are feeling. I didn't realize it wasn't just me it was US. There was no discussion on what I wanted only on what I didn't want and that was everything but missionary. LOL (boy have I changed)
Just something to think about on this great thursday.