HELP -21 and don't want to be touched

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Registered: 02-14-2007
HELP -21 and don't want to be touched
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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:48pm
Wow i can't belive how much my sex life has gone away in the last 6 month's! me and my bf have been together for 2 years now and i just had a daughter 5 months ago. ever since we've started dating it's been every day to two or three times a day BUT.... now ever since i've had my little girl it's been i couldn't care less if i have sex or not! and it's a total deppresed state i am in about it! i have some complicaitons with myself down low. it's extreamly painful. But i'm usually so tired and annoyed by him asking "can we do it", "Suck me off" and i just can't stand it it turns me off but when he's a little bit romatic it's not so bad but i want my sex life back! i want to romp around giggling and haveing sex all over the place. But on the other hand i couldn't care less if he toched me. then i think that it's me not being so inlove with him and we don't have that spark but i do love him more than anything. everything is just so fustrating and stressful on our relationship. we were so much more happier when we were having great sex! what can i do! Please help me! i'm only 21 i couldn't even imagin what it might be like when i get older!
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Thu, 12-20-2007 - 2:11pm

When you see it coming, duck!

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Registered: 12-28-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 7:29am
im in the same situation i havent had a child bt my sex drive just went away im only 21 and we have been togeher 2 years as well but i just lost my urge and he broke up wih me yesturday b/c of it i dont know what to do i want to love him but i cant...... sucks doesnt it?