HL Need explanation

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Registered: 01-05-2008
HL Need explanation
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Sat, 01-05-2008 - 5:42am
I'm new here. I've been reading. I would just like to know why the world tries to pretend like women r less sexual than men. Me and all my female friends have higher Libidos than the men we deal with. I don't have a boyfriend and I'm a virgin, but i do have sexual needs. I may have more than most. I do the petting and loads of deep kissing, i get oral, and i get spanked, do a lot of grinding, but it is so hard to get people to go along with getting to it. At first i thought well I'm a virgin, people would rather have sex than tease them selves, but then i started talking to friends and they (All sexually active) have the same problems. None of us are unattractive, and we range in sizes completions hight and temperament. I'm a mis match with every guy I date, and so are they. The ones with boy friends r always playing their card to see if they can weasel some sex out of there partner. I have a usual and it's a bit complicated, but it's the same with him and the one b4 him. I decided that men just like to hold whatever they can over your head to feel powerful, or they have stable hormonal systems contrast our constant fluctuations in that area , but after seeing this site i'm thinking maybe most of them r just LL's.
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Sat, 01-05-2008 - 8:38am
This is very unusual for a single person.



Edited 1/5/2008 8:39 am ET by shugahman
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Mon, 01-07-2008 - 2:18am
I know it's odd for a single person, but the thing is when it come to my case as opposed to my friends, I don't intend to have sex so i don't get sexual contact as often as I'd like bc men don't want to get sexual with women that aren't going the whole 9 yards most of the time. Since i don't lie about it guys will do a little something with me and then that's it. I don't pressure them, bc I don't want to be pressured, so it's kind of continual thing. Also it's hard to find a guy that was my match in the libido department, get to know him to a point where i am comfortable with messing around with him, be able to do whatever (and i do mean I'd probably try just about anything once) besides sex, and him be cool with that. People don't usually have that kind of gray area. They are cool with the virgin thing or they aren't. If they are they barely touch u and if they are they leave. I had one guy that was with it, but it didn't last bc he wouldn't treat me right. He though it was ok not to speak to me for weeks at a time and have a girl on his face book account (not me might i add) listed as in a relationship. So i think it's safe to say that he was with her and I was the side piece in a manner of speaking. Honestly when we fooled around it was great, but he liked to with hold or act like it wasn't going happen for en irrelevant reason, or just make me jump thru some kind of hoop.I've never been in a relationship part of it is the libido thing. If a man seems close minded or narrow minded about sex and the female/ male roles in it I can't commit to them. It always ends up a very short lived affair. The same goes for men that want nothing from me but sex. I have a really big butt and a small waste. If that's the focus of 9 out of 10 conversations I'm gone.LOL!