i have low libido issues...
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|Tue, 07-17-2007 - 5:20pm|
Hi, I'm new on this board... just wanted to put some ideas out there and get some new perspectives. My BF and I are both 29, both fairly inexperienced in bed, both were single for at least a year before we got together. I'm the one with low libido, for several reasons: was on antidepressants for awhile but stopped this past winter. I saw somebody on this board mention birth control pills as a potential libido-killer - I'm on that too. I get yeast infections and/or UTIs at least once a year, which has made me very conscious of activity down there. While in college I caught herpes, and it's been a source of shame and anxiety for me ever since. Also, while my BF is blessed with a large penis, he's somewhat lacking in technique and it hurts me if we don't use plenty of lube (which we low libido girls tend to lack anyway).
So I'm just wondering if any of you have had success in dealing with any of these issues. I love him and want this relationship to work out, but not sure how we can improve the problematic sex. I guess therapy is the next logical step.