I have no sex drive...

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Registered: 09-28-2007
I have no sex drive...
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Fri, 09-28-2007 - 12:31am
I am in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for about a year and nine months. We are planning to get married within the next two years, he is everything I could ask for in a man. There are absolutely no problems in our relationship except one. I have lost my sex drive, and I can't figure out why! It's happened just recently in the last two or three months. I never want sex anymore. We used to make love so passionately and so often, and all of a sudden it has tapered off. I know I am not pregnant, so that's not it. We are still very cuddly and affectionate and loving with each other, but the minute he tries touching me in more intimate spots, I shy away and don't want his hands on me. It's beginning to frustrate both of us. I want to have sex and be intimate with him, but when we do, I lie there and just will him to hurry up and get it over with. We've tried toys, blindfolding, new positions...nothing seems to be helping. Should I see a doctor? I'm a little embarrassed over this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!
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Registered: 01-04-2006
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 8:51am

In all relationship, there is a honeymoon phase where a couple can't get enough of each other.