I think pain is my problem

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2007
I think pain is my problem
1
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 6:18pm
I think pain is my problem. When my husband and I first started having sex we were doing it like 3x a day and I never had a problem climaxing. Before we got married we spent about 6 months apart. Our honeymoon was a bust. Instead of having sex all day I usually ended up crying because it hurt so bad. It got better as time went but never perfect. Then my hubby was shipped off to Korea for 6 months. We he go back sex was great. But now I go through cycles, where sex is awesome or it just hurts or i can't "get it". Lately it just ends up hurting. Burning, like a rug burn. I wonder if its just dry but lubricant doesn't seem to help that much. I don't know what to do. Heck i'm only 22, he's my one and only partner and vise versa, and we've only been married for 3 years. I don't feel like we should be here. Its a bit depressing. I've asked a doc before and they weren't much help. Can anyone help me??? Any suggestions? Has anyone been here before?????
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 9:01am
I responded to this in the HL support section. Hope things get better for you!