im 18, what has happened??!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2007
im 18, what has happened??!!
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 12:36pm

hello everyone, im new to this board

ok, im an 18 yr old female, and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. we've always had great sex, and ive had a fairly high libido, dispite being on the contraceptive pill these past 2 years. however recently i have lost all intrest in sex, and find it difficult to get aroused. my body tenses up which makes sex almost impossible. i dont understand this, as its so sudden. my boyfriend is wonderful about it, but i feel like im letting him down. im young and healthy, so whats happened? my lifes a bit stressful at the mo, but not really bad. any ideas or advice? is this due to the Pill? help!!

thanks in advance,
gracie x

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2006
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 10:05pm
you said it already, "stress" and it can cascade into other things after that.