Impotence causing problems

Deedle, there used to be a poster here with the name "overcaffeinated" or somesuch. There was a real problem that overstepped the anominity of this board and into real life between that poster and one of our regulars who had been here for years. It drove that regular straight off the board, and she was a person with a valuable perspective (even though her position and mine clashed severely from time to time, I still miss her input and contributions to this forum.) I believe that clash between those posters is what drove some of our members here to begin deleting their posts after some time passes, which I find to be a tragedy, since people cannot come on here and read the back posts and get a real flow and the story of people's pain, which is quite instructive. If I've gotten any of this wrong, hopefully someone else will chime with the corrected version (my memory isn't great....)