Left my HL husband

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Registered: 03-20-2012
Left my HL husband
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Wed, 03-21-2012 - 11:50am

Hi all...I came here a year ago with a different login I've forgot, as a frustrated "average drive" female who had LL only when it came to my husband...Athough I can get by with no sex just fine, with the right man I could like having

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 11:59am

Wow. I read this, thinking good for you, as I am proof that just because you aren;t interested in sex (ever!) with one man doesn;t mean that youcan't be the complete opposite with another. And we are long past the NRE stage.

Then I rad the last paragraph. Not real sure why on earth you would have gone back. Nothing has changed.

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 1:07pm

<< ... plus I'd

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 1:18pm
actually, knowing you are being manipulated and abused makes it HARDER to endure/tolerate.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2009
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 1:20pm

Harder for a good reason - it's shouting it's message clearly: change this, it must not continue.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2006
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 1:27pm

What about knowing, by virtue of staying,

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2006
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 3:14pm
I'm not going into the whole "complete balance in all things" debate with you again, Glenn, but thanks for trying.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2012
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 7:44pm

I didn't know that 'knowing' you are being manipulated and abused made it easier to endure as opposed to being ignorant about it.

True, false?

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 8:26pm
HavIng kids together is the only semi legit treason to try again. You have no kids together so no reason to stay. Retire the drama queen tiara and move on.
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Registered: 12-10-2009
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 5:45am

I'd say rather, that not having kids together presented the perfect opportunity to exit.

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Registered: 10-31-2009
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 9:45am

"So I

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