LLs: What would increase your libido?
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LLs: What would increase your libido?
| Tue, 12-04-2007 - 3:54pm |
LLs:
Is there something that your partner could do that would increase your desire to have sex with them? Is there something they could do that make you want to initiate sex with them more often? Is there something they could do to make you want to have sex with them more often?
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Can't really think of anything, except having a glass (or two) of wine beforehand. That said, there's no ML to speak of in my marriage -- just my unspoken sense that DH would like a LITTLE more sex than we're having. He's certainly never complained.
Freelance
Edited 12/5/2007 8:55 am ET by freelancemomma
>>Okay, don't all you LL's jump in this post at once.
>>Is there something that your partner could do that would increase your desire to have sex with them? Is there something they could do that make you want to initiate sex with them more often? Is there something they could do to make you want to have sex with them more often?<<
I haven't answered this because I am one of those women that the HL men here complain about. Planets aligned just so, on the second Thursday of month beginning in M....LOL. That's not really true, but I have to be properly relaxed, not too tired, not too distracted, or stressed, feeing properly loved, valued and attractive. Conditions don't line up often enough, unfortunately.
Randa
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Hmmmmm I have suggested the same vocation (sex therapist) for myself - and received the same response.
Women!
::rolls eyes::
Yavonne-
Just wanted to say - your kids are too cute!!!
<<For me I think that if DH helped me around the house, spent more time talking to me, and spent more time with me and kids that would help alot. But just in general if he would say things like "I want you, or "I want to be with you." Instead of saying "come on" or can we have sex?">>
My LL spouse has said similar things, even communicating more, referring to the 5 love languages. My spouse's has indicated that the love language I should be focusing on is "service". However, no level of focusing on domestic servitude and no revision of the come-on
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