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|Tue, 02-20-2007 - 4:43pm|
My bf and I have been dating for 3 months, having sex for 2. The first few weeks we were pretty active but it's slowly decreased (all my doing) the problem is, I have NO idea where the lack of interest has stemmed from. I'm still very much attracted to him and enjoy being with him. I started a new bc pill 4 months ago (yaz) but I'm not sure if that is it or not. He is starting to get very upset and frustrated. When I tell him I don't know why I am feeling this way, he doesn't understand. He just doesn't get how I wouldn't know. But I really don't. As for other stuff - I've gained about 10 pounds ( i think from the pill) but I'm still normal weight (5'8 135lbs) and he definitely has not said anything to make me think it's a problem.
To be honest, I've always really haven't had a great sex drive. At the beginning of this relationship I was extremely excited that I wanted to have sex a lot. I have no idea what has changed.
I don't know how much other information to give...i will say I always have been pretty conservative about sex and talking about it. And not because my parents were like that...kind of just my own opinions.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated. If there are things I can do or try to get this back to what it was at the beginning I would greatly appreciate it. (and so would my bf :) )