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|Thu, 01-03-2008 - 5:16pm|
Hi, I am new on this board and thought I'd ask a question or so.
I am almost 43 years old and have had a hysterectomy (there goes my sex life), I am married to a wonderful man who is 14 years older than me and is ALWAYS ready.
It's not that I don't love him, I do very much, but I can't even lay in the bed and turn over without him grooping and grabbing me and trying to wrap himself up around me, usually so tight I can't even breathe or move at all. If I try to pull away he says I don't love him. I have tried to explain to him that him wrapping up around me has NOTHING to do with love. I have night sweats and he puts out ALOT of heat and I just can't stand it anymore.
Is there anything he can take to calm him down? I feel like my sex life is ok and I am having alot in my condition, but he would have it 15 times every day if I would put out.
I need some advice, but most of all I need a sex vacation, but if I try to get two nights in a row without it, I have to make up for it the next 5 or 6 nights......I'm tired.