New here and venting (long)

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Registered: 09-04-2007
New here and venting (long)
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Mon, 12-31-2007 - 7:27pm

Ugh, okay...I've been lurking here for a while but after last night and this weekend, I'm posting just to get this out.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 7:50pm

It was instructive to read your vent. As an HL man, it does me good to

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Registered: 09-04-2007
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 9:44pm

First of all, I'm glad if our troubles help you avoid a potential situation with your wife


Now up until this past weekend, I had not been upset about him going on AFF recently, so yes, you are right in that aspect, as well about the part of me being upset about the fact that these are real women in close proximity to us, that if he so chose to, he could take this further.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 12:32pm

I think he should stay off AFF altogether.

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Registered: 11-30-2005
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 9:13pm

I don't know what your reasons are for avoiding counseling, but....are they more important than your marriage?


Couples in mismatch-libido, monogamous relationships have four options for dealing with the mismatch.


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