Normal?

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Registered: 06-30-2009
Normal?
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Wed, 08-18-2010 - 4:27pm

Hey Ladies! :]
I am KINDA newbie to sex me and my boyfriend been having sex for almost eight months now. However we only have sex like once month not even.

I dunno? Is this normal? I am 20 and he’s 21. Shouldn't we be having sex like crazy? Before we had sex he wanted it BADLY, but now he does not. This is okay for me because well the sex isn’t so great anyways.

I think my real problem is my friends, they always told me “SEX SO GREAT!!!” “ONCE YOU HAVE IT YOU ARE ADDICTED!!!”

I just do not feel ‘hooked’ as my friends say I would. Maybe I just have a low libido? My 50 year old mom has more sex than me… I wish I did not know that! Lol.

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Registered: 12-10-2009
In reply to: lostxforever
Sat, 09-04-2010 - 4:13am

Fantastic for you Glenn, and love your energy.


It seems very strange to me when your partner treats you like a toad, then expects you to be all loving and atttentive...

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Registered: 12-10-2009
In reply to: lostxforever
Sat, 09-04-2010 - 4:17am

I'm not sure I'd go down the "retaliation" route - or even "consequences", because this

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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: lostxforever
Sat, 09-04-2010 - 8:31am
...I think a deeply entrenched, time-spanning relationship with a partner who ignores the needs of the other partner while simultaneously making sure their own needs are met might be best served by some consequences..."I'm not going to engage in your emotional bonding activity until you work toward engaging in mine long term"...(obviously, the wording I've used is a tad formal)...
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Registered: 06-17-2003
In reply to: lostxforever
Sat, 09-04-2010 - 11:29am
I have no interests in retaliation. Its not that type of situation and I am not that type of person. We had a great beginning to our relationship and great time raising the kids. However I am personnally at a crossroad, " do I want to grow old with the person"? Twenty five years ago it was absolutely! but now? A few months ago was a big turning point when I needed emergency surgery,
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Registered: 02-03-2009
In reply to: lostxforever
Sat, 09-04-2010 - 2:31pm
...wow, what an absolutely selfish remark...
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Registered: 12-10-2009
In reply to: lostxforever
Sun, 09-05-2010 - 9:10am

Eeek!

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Registered: 06-17-2003
In reply to: lostxforever
Mon, 09-06-2010 - 9:53am
I am not sure what I will do. I am not looking for sex with someone else, and someone else has not been looking for me...at least not yet and the situation has not presented itself. It's another road that

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