Not interested in sex...
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|Tue, 02-06-2007 - 10:27am|
Hello im 21 and ive been seeing someone for about 6 motnhs now and weve fooled around a bit but havent had sex yet, im just not that interested in it. I always find it hard to get excited about things, my boyfriends always asking me whether im aroused and i just dont feel like i am. Im not using any sort of contraceptive pill, never needed it before now. Im still a virgin, as never had a serious relationship before. Ive considered going on the pill to be extra safe if i ever do decide to have sex but as im not interested in it, i never have. Its starting to upset me because i love my boyfriend and hes being very patient and understanding, he'd never rush me into anything. Its just i feel like its never going to happen, i never feel the urge to let him make love to me. I dont understand it, even when hes touching me i dont feel much. I am attracted to him, i just dont know why i dont get aroused. I havent spoken to him about it, i dont want to upset him or make him feel that i dont want him or find him desirable.
I dont know what to do, ive tried to get into it and really concentrate when were kissing but i get nothing.