overtime and manipulation
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|Tue, 01-30-2007 - 6:07pm|
I wish I could make my HL partner understand that I am too tired to have sex with him.
Ok, he goes to work when he feels like it -- he has his own business.
He doesn't do housework. He doesn't help with our youngest daughter's schoolwork. He doesn't cook (ok, maybe 1 or 2 times a year).
His teeth are bad, he is fat, and he can't get it up (sorry if TMI) half the time.
But I should be sooo happy to have sex with him after this day:
Got up at 6. Got daughter up and ready for school. Made coffee and bagels for everyone.
Left for work and dropped off daughter at 7 am.
Got home from work at 8 pm.
Straightened the house and made home made soup till 10 pm
Helped daughter with homework (she should have been in bed but someone had to help her with the parts she didn't understand) till 11 pm
Had stupid husband come in and say. . . oh boy, now you are ready to have sex for a couple of hours right? It's my turn for attention.
UMMM. NO. I have to get up and do this again tomorrow. You were still asleep when I left at 7. You have been home since 4 pm. (I asked my daughter). You were too "busy" playing on your computer to help your daughter do homework. You had plenty of energy to come complain that I was gone "too long and you were hungry". NO. I do not want to stay up till 1 am having sex so I can get up at 6 and you can sleep in till 9 or 10.
So he gets sex once a month or so. Maybe if I didn't have to pay 2/3's of the bills by working overtime, maybe if he took care of his health, maybe if he got a "REAL" job, maybe if he helped around the house, he would have more sex.
And you know what the saddest thing is? I used to like sex, but now I can't stand sex with him. I don't want to have another kid to take care of forever.
Sheesh. Ok, I shouldn't vent, but really, dump all the responsibilities of our world on me and then wonder why I don't want sex.
That's why Ahole.