Physically turned off

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Physically turned off
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Sat, 07-10-2010 - 6:43pm

Hi,

I decided to delete this msg. Upon reflection, this situation is a reflection of many other family issues - we have been torn apart the last few years dealing with a drug addict son. And no, I have never been "extremely" overweight. We both know that we must work together to improve our lives together - have just been coasting along. I was venting my frustrations. Quick question: do those KY things work? Take care everyone.  




Edited 7/11/2010 10:09 pm ET by trustisgone
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Fri, 08-13-2010 - 8:39pm

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Yes, I tend to think you're probably overestimating the effect of attitude or special "tricks" to jump-start your libido. That experience you described having at 12... WOW! In my book that shows you have a very HL wiring. It's inconceivable that anything like that would happen (or have happened) to me. At 12 (and 16, for that matter), I had no awareness of any sexual feelings whatsoever.

So, you've had the goods all along. They went into hiding for a while, but the neural ciruitry had been laid down. It was a question of excavating what you already had, rather than creating something from nothing.

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Fri, 08-13-2010 - 8:43pm

And I normally desire sex with DH on average once per week, not the seven times that I'm currently having.

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Fri, 08-13-2010 - 8:46pm

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Fri, 08-13-2010 - 9:22pm
...I'm going to "accuse" you of never having lost attraction for him in the first place...perhaps you disliked everything about him but still had a sexual attraction for him...
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