pregnant and i dont want sex!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2007
pregnant and i dont want sex!
2
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 8:32pm
I am 22wks pregnant with my 2nd kid with long-time boyfriend. With the first pregnancy we had a lot of sex, i wanted it all the time , with this one i am just too tired or not in the mood. It seems that the only times i really want sex at all is when he is not around... I have no idea why, but its like when he is standing in front of me I have no desire to do anything sexual. He is getting very frustrated with it , so then i get frustrated with him being such a guy and wanting sex all the time and expecting me to want it just as much. I dont know what to do, I dont want to have sex when im not in the mood, and i definiately dont want him to look for it elsewhere ( which he likes to be a jerk and say hes going to do ) Its ruining our relationship , any suggestions?
Avatar for cl_elyse449
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2006
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 10:16pm

Hi incantimagine,


First of all, if I haven't said it yet-welcome! Secondly, congratulations on baby!! That is truly happy, happy news!


The first thing I was thinking is how tired I was when I was pregnant w/ my first son. My goodness,

Avatar for holdingontoit
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2004
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 6:08pm

>>>>> I dont want to have sex when im not in the mood, and i definiately dont want him to look for it elsewhere <<<<<


Other than him changing to comply with your wishes, what do you want and what are you offering him in return?


I know you wish he would "get with the program" and help just because he is the dad.

When you see it coming, duck!