Sex drive just gone!! Im only 31!
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Sex drive just gone!! Im only 31!
| Mon, 06-14-2010 - 2:00pm |
I am recently married and just found out I am pregnant! We have a TON of stress in our lives, I am in outside sales and he owns a business. I am 31 and he is 35. We each have a child from our previous marriages and I find myself so distracted and exhausted from working 10-12 hours days that sex is the LAST thing on my mind when we finally get to the bed!
We have only been married 2 months and it shouldnt be like this! He is frustrated with me and I cannot get in the mood, now that I am pregnant I feel like I could just fall asleep during the day then when his daughter comes the stress levels go through the roof!!!
Any words of advice for me??
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I think in that manner.
dRiving for the rights of the individual since 1969
Well, to be honest, I was none too impressed by your suggestion to this poster. It seemed off the mark, and overly harsh. I just couldn't come up with a snappy retort or witty way to defuse things....hence my ridiculous "wow" post.
dRiving for the rights of the individual since 1969
>> does he just get mad when you don't put out? If he's trying to argue you to death so you have sex with him that will just make the problem worse so that you're sex drive for him will possibly never return<<
Very very true. As a LL once your efforts to extend a loving gesture have been ridiculed and attacked as being insufficient, it becomes almost impossible to continue to offer yourself up on the alter of the HLs sexual needs.
Does he actually try to seduce you and help you WANT sex, such as lighting candles, talking romantically etc. or does he just get mad when you don't put out? If he's trying to argue you to death so you have sex with him that
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Jamie:
There is no mystery why
When you see it coming, duck!
>>>>> Am I crazy in thinking that we should take our partner's needs more seriously than life's distractions? <<<<<
Yes, you are.
When you see it coming, duck!
Sometimes, when I've just worked for 15 hours, and come home and do the laundry, clean the catbox, and put the dishes away, I don't really want to go to work the next morning.
But do I call my co-workers, or my boss, and say "I'm not coming in because I'm not in the mood?"
So, how ridiculous does it sound that you are completely dismissive with your life-partner?
Am I crazy in thinking that we should take our partner's needs more seriously than life's distractions?