Sex every day, but I feel LL...
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|Thu, 03-20-2008 - 4:49pm|
My boyfriend and I have sex almost every day. And when we do, we have it 2-3 times a night on average, and 1-2 times in the morning when we wake up.
The only thing is...I feel LL, because he's always ready to go on longer, to do more, again and again. He'll wake me up in the middle of the night after having stayed up all night, and want more.
Sometimes I feel like I have to perform, like I have to want it more than I do. Every day is a lot, right? And more than once? And we've been together for a while! I love sex with him, and I enjoy it, but I have to sleep sometime! And I do end up tired, and cranky, with low energy, and late to things a lot. Sometimes if we have sex 2-3 times, and then he wants to go longer, and I feel tired and happy and satiated, he thinks I'm rejecting him, don't desire him, and didn't feel good...what? Even when we just went at it for a few hours and a couple of times.
Has anyone else has this experience? What do I do? I've even tried all kinds of things to up my energy levels, ginseng, exercise, better diet. But I feel tired all the time after staying up forever having sex! And then I don't want it the next night because my eyes hurt so bad!
My boyfriend is like the energizer bunny in all things, work, play, working out, whatever. Endless energy. I'm just not like that. I have limits. I think we have a good sex life, but I always feel like it's not enough.
We talk, and I've tried to explain it all to him, but I still feel like he feels rejected when I say I want to go to sleep after hours and hours of lovemaking. :-(